About this course

Learning Objectives

• Define ethics and ethical guidelines in counseling the bereaved.
• Apply techniques of ethical decision making to ethical dilemmas in practice.
• Demonstrate knowledge of the impact of grief on clients.
• Examine self-awareness and death anxiety while working with the bereaved.
• Utilize appropriate tools to assist bereaved clients on their grief journey.

Learning Levels

• Intermediate

Course Instructor(s)

• 

  Susan Lashmet Miller, LCSW

  Grief Counselor, The Tristesse Grief Center

  Susan is the most senior employee at The Grief Center, having worked here since 2010. She has been in the social work field for 33 years and has held director positions at St. John’s and Hospice of Green Country, to name a few. At The Grief Center she works with adults, both with individual and group therapy, as well as presents multiple CEU trainings throughout the year. Susan additionally clinically supervises interns and social workers in candidacy.

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